
STOLEN IDENTITY
STOLEN IDENTITY
WRITTEN BY WILFRED BOLDS JR.
HAVE YOU EVER LOOKED IN THE MIRROR AND NO LONGER RECOGNIZE YOURSELF?
Stolen Identity is a practical guide to reclaiming who you are, strengthening your identity, and building a life rooted in clarity, discipline, and purpose.
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Through transparent storytelling and deep reflection, Wilfred reveals how expectations, societal norms, and the need for external validation slowly pull us away from our true selves.
From personal battles off the football field to lessons shaped by love, faith, and self-awareness, this book walks readers through reclaiming their identity and purpose and learning how to use it intentionally.
This is not just a story of loss.
It is a roadmap to transformation.
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If you’re an individual desiring a life of intention and fulfillment and you don’t have clarity on who you are; you’re already losing.
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YOU'RE NOT STUCK. YOU'RE UNCLEAR.
Most people don’t struggle because they lack motivation. They struggle because they lack identity clarity.
When you don’t know who you are:
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​​If left unchecked, this confusion will cost you more than progress.
It will cost relationships, confidence, and long-term direction.
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You react instead of lead
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You guess instead of decide
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You carry roles you were never meant to hold
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THIS IS NOT MOTIVATION. IT'S STRUCTURE.
Stolen Identity provides a clear framework to help you:
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Identify who you are before choosing what you pursue
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Understand the roles you are responsible for and the ones you’re not
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Protect your identity from external pressure and internal insecurity
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Build confidence rooted in clarity, not performance
This is identity discipline.
And discipline creates direction.
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THIS BOOK IS FOR INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE DONE GUESSING.
This book is for you if:
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You feel pressure to “be everything” but lack clear direction
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You want structure, discipline, and self-mastery
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You refuse to build your life on confusion
If you want shortcuts, this isn’t for you.
If you want clarity you can apply, keep reading.
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BUILT FROM REAL WORK, NOT THEORY
Wilfred Bolds Jr. is an identity execution coach, keynote speaker, and author who works with men navigating leadership, responsibility, and role clarity.
His work centers on:
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Identity discipline
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Role clarity
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Self-mastery
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Accountability
This book is the foundation of his framework.
Reading is step one. Application is the work.
YOUR IDENTITY SHAPES EVERYTHING THAT FOLLOWS
Marriage.
Parenthood.
Career.
Leadership.
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You don’t rise to your potential.
You rise to the clarity of your identity.
LET'S EXECUTE!!
